Hey guys!
I hope you are all having a
fantastic day?
This particular topic has left me
wondering for such a long time, but the urge to write has never been there
because I thought maybe it was going to reduce but hey! It's just getting worse
and complicated.
I will make it simple and short.
I will make it simple and short.
It's obvious that BBM is no more
biggie to everyone now, but what still amazes me is how it's being used. For
me, I think your pin should be private and kept confidential and not for public
display.
Some people go as far as writing it on Facebook and other social media platforms and tag it “here is my pin add me up”! When such people get added by some nuisance then they come out crying wolf. Whose fault is it when you get bothered or disturbed by some random people you don't know?
Some people go as far as writing it on Facebook and other social media platforms and tag it “here is my pin add me up”! When such people get added by some nuisance then they come out crying wolf. Whose fault is it when you get bothered or disturbed by some random people you don't know?
Another part of this BBM I find
relatively interesting and also annoying at the same time is the monitoring
spirits. Bearing in mind that these spirits could be people who pretend to be
friends or even friends turned spirits.
At times you get an invite from
someone you are not even close to and you keep wondering, why is she adding me
up? It's not like she's my friend like that, but you know, maybe because we don't
want such people to feel offended, you accept their invites. Alas! The beginning
of a mistake if you asked me.
The so called friends or acquaintance
you are familiar with are also just there at times monitoring all that's
happening in your life. The one that baffles me most is the personal message
(s) and display pictures some people put up….Gosh!!! You see some people’s personal
messages, and you will be like seriously????
Messages or displays that
indirectly refer to someone as enemy bla bla....for example, a personal
message like “u check my Dp and You hiss that’s ur own headache”. Trust me guys
I have seen more than I can even put up here and I’m sure you all can relate to
this.
I want to believe our contacts
should be the people we are friends with, people we are happy to make friends with
and people who are willing to contribute to our lives positively and not people
who make us feel unsecured and full of envy. Some people add you up and never
chat you up. Not even to wish you well on any of the days you are celebrating a
certain milestone in your life. Yet they don't want to delete you off their
contacts simply because they want to know how well or badly you are doing in
life. Please save yourself some hassle
and press the DELETE button.
Honestly guys, Life can be as
easy as we want it to be. Life is too short to hold grudges. Let's make the
best out of life and save ourselves unnecessary attitudes. I’m not trying to
sound mean, but its the honest truth. Honestly, this act will bring so much relief knowing fully, even
if it’s just 3 people you have as contact, at least you are cool with them and
not the people that will make you sin more, if you get what I mean.
You can agree or disagree with
this post. It's a free world. Just thought I’d let this out someday………I'm glad I just
did!
Comments
some even pretend not to be active on bbm but trust me all na lie.
some form busy and dont change dps , pls tell me what bbm is for?
some see ur dp and pms and they are like kai she changes dp too much bla bla, abeg if u are not ok with that kindly delete yourselves.
some save up ur dp and they share with other friends for either reasons, either to make fun or appreciate what u ve worn.
wait until u are celebrating something and watch people unveil ur pics..... Mehnnnnn its crazy LMAO.
Life na jeje abeg.